Bloating Under Rib Cage

A new life!

Since yesterday afternoon, at about 12:00 local time, it is finally pronounced

"Adopted and proclaimed: This marriage ends in divorce."

Finally! After nearly three years apart, almost two years of nerve-divorce proceedings - after many accusations and silly love letters written by the oh so clever friend ... Heinz is now finally officially my ex-husband. And in at least one week (I hope) I can then go with the decision to City Council and take my maiden name again.

Gina told me yesterday during the hearing, nor even properly sprinkled salt into the wound ... But nothing availed. I have won my custody request by getting at least in part. Quite unfortunately not - anything that has nothing to do with school, health and wealth (I find it just nothing another one .... maybe give an idea here?), must continue to be discussed with the father * sigh *.

The girlfriend was yesterday by the way there. And had to laugh at pretty much any of my comments like a pubescent child. Oh man, you could tell right that it is only on paper 25 (or days). The "ice tea" question by the way each of the two so answered, pointing the finger at others and accusing him. Her words: "Have I told thee," and his words, "But that was not even so much with me, they almost drank only water." LOL? Well there have actually found the two right ones. If not one of them is still a little smarter or his level a little screwed up, their marriage will probably last forever. And yes they do get married later this year.
I do not understand ... just divorced. Since I do not yet again get under the hood. Well, it's his decision - thankfully.

is The only negatives that I - in contrast to other divorced women - this "man" all my life must somehow endure. Nunmal have these two children ... Even though the two are over 18, he is still at weddings, births, etc. are currently be. Hopefully by then I support at my side.

Although I like to have here want to talk about the issue of man.
In my life I have met different kinds of men - but overall I can put in 4 different drawers.

The first are those which that are still super nice and helpful at first. Then it comes to a meeting (new word for Date: P), which incidentally also runs very well. You talk nice to end the meeting, perhaps with a hug and promised to call again soon. Joa ... but this call is in turn then from. TYPICAL! Contact attempts on my part brushed off quickly ... Well - I do not need those guys. They make me sick just because I may be upset again. Away with it!

waiting since then in the second drawer those men who at the beginning - been writing tons of e-mails and SMS - even before you can get to know. Some early morning call at 9 clock already and voluntarily terminate the call to 12 clock do not want. The battery of my phone not even have to be full. Then the same day (after 8 hours of talk) call again in the evening, so I eventually turned my night service, so that we as a have specific time of our rest. The best all day (outside calls) via MSN to chat with a wish - no matter whether there are children or not. Those in which one also has to justify why you are not at home, the SMS does not answer the same or not answer the phone .... and after a meeting either very intrusive, or it turns out that they hold in general are not my type. Either they are the types that are still only on the A, or just fools - no matter, because there is such a heated debate at the end that I unnerved a nice insult from the stack and leave to break off contact - in any respect. Numbers are blocked, emails pushed to the spam folder. Any friends on various Internet portals are nullified, etc. Something like I do not need to ... only took me once again tasted life unnecessarily.

Oh the third drawer is interesting. They are namely the men at the beginning do already take the friendship track. No matter what reasons. One can not just forget his ex, the other is afraid to commit himself again. All well and good - friends you can never have enough. The problem is that this can not continue to go well. If I meet someone in as a brokerage, I examined anyone determined to build a supidupi friendship. Even though I approve of a friendship (and since I know the men seem to be better than I do - in such phrases as "But you certainly do not want yes" - blablabla) and then at some point notice that this same guy the contact breaks off due to a newly formed relationship (which later turned out only when the relationship is possibly the break-ups), then I think I have my share. Namely, something like 'Oh great - he only wanted a friendship with ME - but it still looks more busy? " As I come to my stop fooled before. Then take you could just on a coffee (or in my case in an ice cream - now know my sister, whom I address), there is quite nice, except that any notice of a friendship is no longer in it anyway ... phone a few times, arrange to meet the Gamescon in August .... and he broke off contact again!
is completely wrong in my opinion it the way even if one has met only once and then immediately to "currently only friendship," says ... when you say "You sorry, I'd first like to meet up better," I understand completely. But if you say "I do not know if there is more ... at the moment it is just friendship ... "- cheers. Once the word "friendship" is the thing for me is as good as done ... It would be nice if I could think differently because ... but so far I had always right there, unfortunately, since all the guys seem to act the same.

Come now and then the fourth drawer ... the worst. And I think that is a majority of the guys (but certainly also for women). At first super helpful, nice, generous (perhaps - with me but not obligation), as seen from the best. It is a relationship ... makes perhaps the mistake and answered at some point the application with a YES. And once you're married, this guy shows his true colors once. Jobs to be abandoned, the bed is open until noon, full of puff away the booth, everything will be all allowed to stand, maybe they start to cry even on to beat whatever. In the presence of the family of course back the way they behave courteously ... In the end, after they either resigned to avoid further disputes possible - or you can go the only way and finished the whole thing. And even then, it will still be yelled at and threatened that they will be separated not only ... otherwise would your life be hard, etc. pp.

This fourth drawer I would like to keep forever closed - I had enough of it.
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Well as it may, I'm free again! My new phase has begun!

nice day:)